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Coldplay’s “Paradise” re:tuned

Editor’s note: The re:tuned section in every Music Resource Book features  discussion points for some of today’s most popular mainstream songs. These brief studies are designed to give you a starting point for a “What do you think this song is about?” discussion about a song you hear hanging out with students at Starbucks. Or you might try dissecting the week’s featured “Glee” song in a small group setting. Many youth leaders tell us that the re:tuned section is one of the hidden gems of their YLO membership.


Artist: Coldplay
Song: Paradise
Album: Mylo Xyloto
re:tuned by: Aaron Tucker

Teaching Point: Things are bad here, but one day Christians will experience the joy of paradise in heaven.

Opening Questions: Coldplay describes the pain a girl feels and how she dreams of paradise. Describe for the group how we need escape from pain and troubles. Have them close their eyes and picture a paradise that would bring them  happiness when they need it most.

Discussion: Ask the group to name things that bring people happiness when they need to escape. Have them describe in detail a place they could dream about that would be a paradise. Ask them to describe what they think God’s Word says about a paradise.

Was Eden a paradise? What was it like?

Was there another paradise in Scripture? What does heaven look like?

Have the group read Genesis 2:7-9. Ask them to think about what the Garden of Eden would have looked like. Have them try to describe what it might have been like. Emphasize for them that it was a paradise.

Have the group read Revelation 21:1-4. Ask them to think about what heaven will look like, and describe what these verses say it will be like.

Have them read Revelation 21:9-22:5. Ask them to describe further what heaven will look like. Now that the group is picturing this place in their imagination,  have them reread Revelation 21:4. Teach them that the Christian pictures paradise not based on a lack of stress but on the presence of our favorite person: Jesus, the Christ! We can have peace picturing paradise like the girl in this Coldplay song because Jesus will take all our pain away. Emphasize that the most exciting part of this promise from God is that is certain to happen. Nothing can stop this from happening!

Have them read Revelation 22:7, “And look, I am coming soon.” Point out that Jesus promises that our pain will not last forever.

Conclusion: End with a prayer that thanks God for the hope He gives. Thank Him for the beautiful promise of no more pain and the beauty of the paradise of heaven. Have the students write out their own personal prayers, writing to God very specifically for each thing they just studied about that they want to thank Him for. Let them keep their prayers for future reference.

Mark Hall, YLO and some free stuff

We often joke that Mark Hall is “our most famous YLO member.” As the lead singer of Casting Crowns, he’s definitely one of the most recognizable faces in Christian music.

But Mark’s also a youth pastor. Not was. Is. Not just when he’s in town and can drop in, but full-time. The band schedules their shows so that Mark and the rest of the band can be home Sunday through Wednesday night to lead, disciple and hang out with kids.

A heart for student ministry. That’s what we love about Mark. That singing thing he does sometimes … that’s kinda cool too.


Casting Crowns’ new album “The Well” is featured in the latest Youth Leaders Only, and Mark talked with our own Allan Hardin about what his youth ministry looks like (hint: it’s a lot like yours). You can read that conversation here.


Watch this video as Mark shares about the song “Already There” and what its message means to him in his own life

  • Download the chord chart for “Already There” from Casting Crowns
  • Get our exclusive set of Discussion Starters for all 12 songs on Casting Crowns’

Here’s what Mark says about why he’s a long-time member of Youth Leaders Only

We know how important music is in a teenager’s life. Their music’s either urging them toward the life they’re trying to live or it’s dragging them back toward the life they’re trying to leave.

So my conviction is, if a youth leader can show students that Christian music has totally caught up culturally, and encourage students to give their music to God and to let Christian music be what they go to for their entertainment as well as for their growth, it will change everything about them.

It’s hard to do that if you don’t have all different styles of music available, which most of us don’t. To me, YLO has been a great resource to find out what Christian music is out there that I might not find on my own. And, with YLO, I get to hear the heart of the band and what they’re about. YLO has definitely been a great tool for us.

Discovery and Opportunity

One of my favorite blogs (and the first blog I started reading regularly) is ypulse. Ypulse is all about media and technology as it relates to students, and although the focus is marketing, the information is very relevant to student ministry.

Ypulse also does research, and while I haven’t purchased any of their reports, the description of their new report on Entertainment has been bouncing around in my brain for a few days now.

Millennials rarely take a break from media now that it is just as mobile as they are. Music is Millennials’ favorite medium; they spend more time with it in a typical week than with any other. They’re turning music discovery into an art form, picking up on tracks played during TV shows, noting mentions on Facebook, and finding artists via Pandora and Spotify.

“Turning music discovery into an art form
That’s the line that’s stuck with me. Students can’t turn around without hearing new music. Shopping. Watching. Surfing. And their options aren’t limited to what’s on this week’s “Top 40.” I don’t know about you, but I’m not thrilled about Abercrombie & Fitch or Jersey Shore being the only purveyors of new music for kids. As a youth leader, you’ve got the chance to be right there in the mix, playing new tunes, introducing new artists and songs that reinforce the Biblical truths you’re working to instill.

What an amazing opportunity!
Don’t miss the chance you have to be a source of great new music. Sure, it makes you look cool, but more importantly, it can impact your students’ thinking about relationships, about themselves, about God. We work hard to make sure the music and videos that are a part of Youth Leaders Only can help you drive home the messages you want your students to hear … all day, every day. Not just on Sundays and Wednesdays.


Learn about annual memberships to Youth Leaders Only starting at $75.95

The City Harmonic: Manifesto

There’s been a lot of talk about new band The City Harmonic. They performed at NYWC in Atlanta in November and everyone was buzzing about it afterward. We featured their album “I Have A Dream (It Feels Like Home)” in the new YLO86 box, and the Bible study for their song “Manifesto” seems appropriate for the new year.

At the time of year when students are thinking about New Year’s resolutions, this study encourages them to think about the deeper purpose that Christ has for their lives. From the study written by Andy Moore:

Right at the beginning the band stated the focus of their declaration: We believe in the one true God. That is where our faith must begin. If our faith begins anywhere else, it leads to problems in our lives. All we have to do is look at the world around us to know that faith in our abilities and our own personal wisdom gets things messed up.

Check out the video and download our Bible study for “Manifesto” here.

Guest post: My Guy-centric Heresy

Why youth ministry should be guy oriented
By Rick Bundschuh

Let’s get the nasty part over with right away. I think that youth groups should intentionally orient themselves toward males.

Let me be clear. I am NOT suggesting that we ignore girls or refuse to throw support towards ministries aimed at girls. Neither am I suggesting that males are superior, more spiritual or somehow more worthy than females. I am making the claim that youth groups will grow faster, be stronger, be more attractive to both genders and serve the best interest of the church at large if we aim our sights strongly toward guys.

Now, for those of you who haven’t torn up this page in disgust, let me explain why I make those bold and politically incorrect statements.

My first reason is that girls tend to attract other girls to a youth group (and maybe a couple of lotharios), but guys attract both girls and other guys. Here’s why …

The hobby of guys is activity: skateboarding, basketball, hunting, skiing, surfing, wakeboarding, football, biking, snowboarding, video gaming, etc. The hobby of girls is relationship. (Yes, I know that girls do have other interests, but I am painting with a broad brush — girls are far more relationship oriented in their middle school and high school years than are most boys.) Get the guys and you will get the girls too.

Another reason is that guys bring an important balance and energy to a youth group. A youth group that has mostly girls will have a decidedly feminine feel that will tend to drive off stronger males and dominate weaker ones. Guys usually sens e this, and are hesitant to join this kind of group. However, a group that is evenly balanced or even tilted towards males will generally have a different kind of energy and dynamic, which tilts the excitement level up a bit. In order to attract “Alpha” males or strong all-boy types the youth group needs to be a place that welcomes them; the kind of youth groups that are girl heavy are a good place for male predators, but not male participants.

A third reason is that the leadership for the church of the future is often developed in places where youth ministry takes place. And the leadership of the church in America could surely use some strong males. Look at your youth group. Are the girls running the show? Do they outnumber the guys 2 to 1? This is a picture of your future church — where weak men ineffectively try to be leaders in a world of strong, dominant women.

Now I know that girls are easier to work with — they are far more responsible, respond much more spiritually, smell better and leave much less of a mess than the guys. Plus they are far easier to reach. Get one and the whole network will come with them.

Boys, on the other hand, are far more volatile. They are harder to come by and a challenge to keep involved. They get distracted more easily and won’t sit passively if the Bible study turns boring. But without them or with only a few malleable ones, a youth group is not only lopsided, but it also pretty much insures a future church where guys are noticeable by their absence.


This article is from the latest edition of Youth Leaders Only, which features our exclusive “Challenge Of The Sexes: Ministry to Guys and Girls” DVD, discussion starters and articles. Click here to read more about this special edition of YLO.

Heart of the Artist: Family Force 5

There has been some discussion about the content of the new Family Force 5 album in YLO86 (hot). The guys are back and have cranked out another kickin’ album with some amazing dance grooves.  That on its own is never enough for us to include an album or artist in Youth Leaders Only. We included III in YLO because of the impact we see the band have when they play live. We’ve seen Soul Glow Activatur, Crouton, Fatty, Nadaddy and Chap Stique with their hulk-hands and crazy live show, but we also consistently see them share who Jesus is from stage and in their lives.

We know you’re probably not going to use any of their songs, quietly playing in the background, as you give an invitation. But just in the same way we watch Tim Tebow plow through the defense as he throws himself into the end zone then say “Yes, he hits hard and he loves Jesus”, we get to say the same thing about FF5: “Yes, their music hits hard on the dance floor … and they love Jesus.”

I had a chance to talk to Derek (Chap Stique) for a “Heart of the Artist” interview for our new YLO86 Music Resource Book. Make sure you read what he had to say about music, ministry and FF5.

Mark: FF5 has received some amazing opportunities to play in front of non-Christian crowds. I know that some people are only looking for your message to come from the stage, but please share how you as a band purposefully pour into kids’ lives off-stage.

Derek (aka Chap Stique): Family Force 5 views our behind-the-scenes interactions and relationships as the heart and soul of our ministry. Our band tries very hard to make an impact that reaches far deeper than any concert could. Following in the footsteps of some of our mentors, youth pastors, and parents, we work hard to make certain that FF5 is available and accessible, unlike most of the rock bands with which we grew up. Before and after our shows, you will often find the five of us engaging with fans by signing their t-shirts for hours, going to IHOP with their youth-groups, making s’mores at their campsites, DJ’ing their dance-parties, playing basketball with them, going to movies with them, or simply taking the time to talk to them.

In addition, we’re all tremendously active on social networks, and have built an amazing rapport with the kids and adults who listen to Family Force 5. The conversations in which we engage over MySpace, Facebook and Twitter have blossomed into friendships that we never thought were possible between a band and its fans. As a united team, we do the best we can to share the love of Christ in each encounter, and although may not always succeed, we consider it a tremendous honor to have the opportunity to pour that joy into the hearts of so many people.

Mark: Could you share some of the challenges you guys have faced as a band this past couple of years (traveling almost non-stop, band members in the hospital, etc) and how can youth leader pray for you?

Derek: We’ve been through a lot. For the past six years, the five of us (plus Xanadu) have traveled anywhere from 180 to 300 days a year — the hard way. Most of that time was spent sleeping on random people’s floors, fixing broken-down vans in the snow, eating one meal a day (at either Wendy’s or McDonald’s depending on who won the fight between Nadaddy and Fatty that day) and performing in front of about eight people … on a good night.

As you can imagine, all of those factors put quite a strain on our marriages and relationships, many of which are still under intense repair. We missed more weddings, funerals and little-league games than we ever dreamed we would, and as a result, we’ve made a tremendous effort to structure our touring schedule in a much healthier manner.

In addition, the five of us faced the biggest scare of our lives when Fatty, our bassist, spent 5 weeks in the hospital over Christmas of 2009. A lethal combination of anxiety, stress, and a previously unknown medical condition caused his kidneys to shutdown, and his near-death experience put all of us in a delicate state for quite some time. Fortunately, he is back to full health and we could not be more thrilled to have him back.

We’re gracious for any emotional support, and would be appreciative if youth leaders would pray for our endurance, our families, our relationships and our ability to connect with the listeners.

Mark: Knowing your commitment to take Christ to places that are secular venues and crowds, how should youth leaders listen to your new album and use it, knowing that there are a number of “have fun/dance” songs on there?

Derek: Personally, if I was a youth leader, I would listen to III with the perspective that “This crazy band who’s singing about wobbling my knees back-and-forth and bobbling my head might somehow be the only band in the world that can convey God’s love to the kids who might not otherwise ever step foot in a church.”

We believe in the body of Christ, and we know that our role in the body is non-traditional. But that is a role we take very seriously.

Mark: A good while down the road, when FF5 has played its last show, what do you want people to remember about you as a band? What kind of legacy do you want to leave with the people that listened to your music?

Derek: Last show? That’ll never happen! Haha. Realistically, we want to be remembered as the first band that played on the moon. But if that doesn’t work out … or even if it does work out … we want to be regarded as the band that taught people how to smile, how to laugh and how to dance! If you’re doing those three things, you’re obviously experiencing a very profound sense of joy.