Category Archives: Ministry Resource

GRAD: A youth leader’s story

Editor’s note: For years youth leaders have been honoring their graduates with ConGRADulations!  Many of you received ConGRADulations! as a student and are now giving it to your seniors.  Here’s the story of one such youth leader and YLO member – Nathan Ensz.

Nineteen-ninety-six.  Now that goes back a ways! It was the year “7th Heaven” and “Everybody Loves Raymond” was released.  “Home Improvement” and “Boy Meets World” were two of my favorite TV shows. Long hair for guys was in, and skinny jeans … what were those?! It was this year that also stands out to me because it was the year I graduated from high school.

I still remember my youth pastor calling the class of 1996 up on stage in front of our church family. We pretended to smile while he probably said some nice things about us.  Then I remember him giving us a graduation gift (this had not been done for previous senor classes). I was a bit surprised to find a cassette tape (yes, I said cassette) of Christian music compiled for the graduating class of 1996.  Little did I realize at that moment that I would keep that cassette for life (yep, still got it!). Christian music was a huge factor in my spiritual life and I’m so thankful for the artists and bands who have spoken truth into my life through music.

June 15, 2000 was my first day on the job as a new youth pastor.  On my desk was a stack of mail for me to sort through (oh how fun!).  As I began to trash most everything, I came across a renewal notice from interlinc. The youth pastor before me had been a subscriber. A check to interlinc was my first request I made from my youth budget to keep the good music coming! Little did I know, the cassette tape I received in 1996 as a graduation gift was put out by interlinc.  Since my first day in ministry I have given my teens the gift of God-honoring music. And that graduation gift I received from interlinc…yeah, I’m still giving that away too!

Thanks for sharing your story Nathan! Click here to learn about this years ConGRADulations! Music & Media Gift for seniors.

5 Essentials To Start Your Youth Ministry Year

This morning  – EARLY this morning, like before the sun was up early – I was gathering my gear to go on a difficult nine-mile hike in the local mountains. “Let’s see. Water’s loaded into the pack? Check. Dog’s pack is loaded? Check. Hat? Check. iPhone? Check. Dog’s leash? I’ll get it on the way out. Okay, let’s go.”

I forgot the leash.

Even though I thought through what I needed to have, my sleep-deprived stupor made me forget something important. If I had remembered the leash as I was getting into my waiting friend’s truck, I would have run back inside the house and retrieved it. But, I didn’t realize my folly until we were at the trailhead.

The new school year has begun already, and even though you may have left the house for your hike, there’s still time for you to run through a checklist of items that you need to have for your fall kick-off to be effective. Here are five items that I think you need to have for this start to the new ministry year. I’ve even been able to tie them to the five items on my list this morning!

1. Supporters In Place
Your supporters include, but aren’t limited to, your church leadership, the parents of your students, the people who you have regularly praying for the youth ministry (you DO have a group of those amazing people, right? And you communicate with them often, right?), and those people who are willing to help out “anytime you need anything.” The ability that you have to generate “support” for you and the youth ministry will determine the long-term success of your efforts. Your support group is the water in your pack. You can do a bunch of hiking without it, but you won’t be able to go very far. And, you won’t recover from a big effort as quickly or as well. So, build relationships with those who may not be directly involved with what you’re doing, but who want to support your efforts. Make sure those relationships stay near the top of your checklist.

2. Team In Place
Since youth ministry happens person-to-person, not program-to-person, you need a whole team of people to help make the person-to-person happen. Since you’re just one person, you can’t expect to have significant relationships with all of the kids in your ministry PLUS all the kids who show up to check things out. All kinds of people are needed to reach all kinds of kids, so recruit as many folks as you can who are willing to befriend, teach, befriend, cajole, console, befriend, encourage, and challenge teenagers. (Did I mention that they should befriend kids?) Your team of volunteers will help you carry the load, like my dog carries water and food that I would otherwise have to pack.

Check out this article from Doug Fields on building your volunteer leaders

3. Big Events Identified
A youth ministry gains a lot of its reputation and momentum from the “Big Events” that it can pull off. The “GOOD TIME Event” in the latest YLO89 is a good example of a Big Event. It generates tons of exposure, “brag factor” (what the kids talk about the next morning at school), and helps cement the youth ministry as an important part of the youth culture of that area. Think of Big Events as being paydays. You get an infusion of resources at each one that helps you continue on to the next. They are to youth ministry what a hat is to a hiker – they cap everything. (I know. It’s a stretch.)

The GOOD TIME Event is a great kick off special event — and it’s free!

4. Game Plan In Place
My iPhone tracks my hikes using a GPS app. I can see at any moment where I am, how fast I’m going, how far up I’ve climbed, how far I have to go – and see it all with the satellite imagery of the terrain I’m hiking. You need a similar view of your ministry. That’s your Game Plan. Set your teaching series, objectives, and other vital issues into place before you roll into your new year. Now, every year presents unique opportunities and challenges to a youth ministry. Maybe this year you have a huge influx of new freshmen, or you have a bumper crop of seniors. Maybe you’re really connected with the athletes this year instead of the musicians last year. You can’t use last year’s plan. So plan your programming, and your teaching series, to maximize the resources you have. You also need a degree of flexibility with your Game Plan. If something takes off unexpectedly, you need to be able to adjust – like when we decided to take a trail spur this morning instead of staying on the main trail. My iPhone showed me a possibility, and we adjusted our Game Plan to take advantage of it.

5. Budget Available
My dog, Tipper, is very well behaved. I have spent a ton of time (and money) training him. He comes when called, heels on command, and generally is a very well mannered dog. But, he’s big and black. And even though he has his own pack (which usually gets a lot of “Cute!” comments), a big black dog can spook some people. To keep him from going off in directions he shouldn’t, I bring a leash with me to use when other people with dogs are on the trail. Your budget should be like that leash. As long as you’re disciplined and well mannered, you won’t necessarily need the restrictions it brings. But, when tempted to go too far too fast, or engage in activities that might spook your church’s Treasurer, use a budget as a tool to control those urges.

I hope your new school year is AWESOME this year. I’m sure that these five items will help you make it even more effective! Oh, and in case you’re interested, here’s the hike I took this morning.

Jamie Grace: “Come To Me”

NEW! Download the chord chart for “Come To Me” for your band (and check out the lyric video if you want to use the song with your group during worship).

We’ve had a blast getting to know Jamie Grace over the past year. Just like you, we love her music. But we also love her love for youth leaders. She’s joined us for artist talkbacks at several events this summer, and she almost always comes early and stays late to hang out and talk to youth leaders.

The video for her song “Come To Me” is featured on the brand new Music Video Loop. The Bible study, written by Jami Backell from Warden Community Church in Warden, Washington is about finding rest for ourselves and our burdens in Jesus.

Click here to download the Bible study for “Come To Me” featured on MVL78

Youth Leaders Only Members … remember to look for the brand new MVL78 in the back-to-school YLO box coming your way in just a few weeks. And don’t forget about the great new drag-and-drop feature on the MVLs — now you can easily transfer the video files to your favorite presentation software!

Preview all the videos on the brand new Music Video Loop (MVL78)

 

 

Youth Ministry’s New Year

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In youth ministry, back to school really is the “new year.” You’ve got new kids, new volunteers, and a new plan. More so than in January, it feels like a fresh start. And a chance to apply those lessons learned last year.

So in honor of your new year, here are some resources and ideas to help kick things off. Hopefully you’ll find these resources helpful as you turn the page and begin a brand new season of student ministry.

Download a free chapter from “Surviving Middle School”
This book and soundtrack combo is a great way to greet your newbies (and their parents). You can click here to see the complete Table of Contents for the book and go here to learn more about this resource.

Learn more about our theme-based DVDs and resources for must-talk-about topics in student ministry.

Would Jesus Show Up At Your School? Download the PDF
“Jesus was, and is, all about people. His core purpose was obvious: “I have come to seek and save the lost.” What did He mean by “lost”? He was referring to the spiritual condition of people—lost with no relationship with their Creator, lost in purpose, lost in direction, and most seriously, lost forever. Jesus’ heart beat for lost people. Where people gathered, Jesus would show up.

Fast-forward to the present and we can be confident that Jesus, by His Spirit, is
indeed hanging out at, you guessed it, the school campus.”

Artist Drop-Ins
Every Music Video Loop features “Drop Ins” you can add to your video announcements. Here are some of our favorites for setting the tone for the year (click each link to download the file):

 

Fireflight Bible study and interview

We’ve shared the Bible study for Fireflight’s song “He Weeps” over on our website, where you can also read our “Heart of the Artist” interview with Dawn Michele.  The bands latest album is featured as a main selection in the new YLO88.


You can get Fireflight’s album “Now”, along with the latest from TobyMac and Planetshakers, plus the side-splitting “Humor” DVD all in the brand new edition of Youth Leaders Only … check it out here.

Guest post: What we can learn from the world’s oldest teenager

By interlinc team member Phil Baker

We lost a music legend this week.  And he never played an instrument or sang a song.  Dick Clark will be remembered as an authority in the music industry.  Why?  Because he recognized the power of music.  It lifted him out of depression when he lost a brother in World War II.  And he saw it lift the American teenager from culturally insignificant to culturally influential.

He was known as “the world’s oldest teenager” not just because he seemed to age slower than the rest of us.  But also because he kept his intuitive finger on the drum beat of popular music.  Youth leaders also tend to be “just older teenagers”.  (You know I’m right.)  Like Dick Clark they too are kept young by the company they keep.  So it is only appropriate that we pause and observe the life of Dick Clark to see what truth a youth leader can glean from it.

You don’t have to dress and act like a teenager to gain their trust.
Dick Clark started “American Bandstand” in 1952 and saw three decades of music and teenagers twist, hustle and break-dance across his dance floor.  And in all that time, he remained professional in action and in dress.  While fashions and trends flooded the culture in which he plied his trade, he remained uninfluenced and unchanged, like a handrail for those trying to make their way.

Nothing is sadder than someone trying to be something they’re not.  And Dick Clark showed that you don’t have to dress and act like a teenager to gain their trust.  Teens, more than anyone, can sniff out the inauthentic.

Listen beyond the beat
On “American Bandstand” teenagers danced to and then rated the most popular songs of their day, often commenting mindlessly that “it’s got a good beat and you can dance to it.”  But there’s much more to a song than beat and dance-ability.  As a youth leader, you have to listen beyond the beat to filter out those messages that might endanger what you are trying to instill in your teens.

No opinions, just discussion
While an appearance on “American Bandstand” could make or break an artist, rarely did Dick Clark comment on the content or message of the music.  In interviews with his audience, he offered no opinions, just discussion, letting them criticize or praise a song or artist.

As a youth leader, you have a great “in” with the teens who darken the door of your youth room.  It’s possible you could “make or break” their spiritual future simply by discussing their favorite artist with them or exposing them to a Christian artist who they might not otherwise come across.  There’s no need to judge their musical tastes or force a song into their ears.  A simple question or lighthearted conversation about the merits of an artist (Christian or mainstream) can go a long way.

There’s a lot to be said for Dick Clark’s unique effect on the music industry.  Makes you really think about how someone can change the world in an unexpected way.

Like all legends, Dick Clark will live forever, his name etched on the stone memorial of music history.  And I hope a little of him will live on in youth leaders who recognize the potential impact music has on a person and a ministry.

Guest Post: Worth the Effort

By interlinc Editor Ken McCoy

The buses pulled into the church parking lot and were greeted by cheers from teenagers and their parents. Their arrival was the climax of two hours of pre-game programming – a bluegrass band was playing on the porch of the Longhorn Lodge; Dirty Bert and his gang rode in on horses and staged a gunfight in and around the Lodge; our leaders were dressed in cowboy boots and hats; and dads were cooking burgers and hot dogs on massive grills out by the ballfield. All that, just to “check in” the kids going to camp.

“Desperado” was the theme of camp that year, and we had worked hard for a couple of months to set the tone for what would happen all week. We were already worn out before we even boarded the busses, but we were fired up!

See our list of camp and mission trip theme songs

Why? Camp was going to be when we experienced the results and rewards for months and months of daily ministry with teenagers. We worked hard going into camp and were expecting that God would let us see some of the fruit of our labor: changed lives. We could hardly wait to see what He would do!

We weren’t disappointed, and I’m still thrilled about what He did that week. I know that some of those kids are in full-time ministry today, and dozens of them are now godly parents and volunteer ministry leaders. I know this because many of those people have found me on Facebook and have filled me in on what God is still doing in and through them.

Check out interlinc on Facebook

Camp is a lot of work. If you do it well, you can count on being exhausted, wasted, irritated, and completely spent by the time you get home. You can also count on being thrilled, fulfilled, and motivated to take advantage of the momentum that camp can provide your ministry.

It’s worth the effort!


BONUS RESOURCES

Article: In Defense of Summer Camp by Jeremy White at Valley Church in Vacaville, California

Resource: The Definitive Mission Agency List (PDF)

Resource: Festival Survival Guide: Everything you need to know to take your youth group to a Christian Music Festival (without going crazy!) by Dave Weiss

What YLO has in common with March Madness

The Black Keys “Lonely Boy”

The new YLO87 includes a re:tuned discussion starter for the song “Lonely Boy” from The Black Keys. The song is a great way to start a discussion about how Jesus is waiting for us. re:tuned writer Benjamin Squires asks this question:

Could it be Jesus singing the blues about you? Jesus left His place in the throne room of Heaven to save us. “Well, I’m so above you/And it’s plain to see/But I came to love you anyway.”

Download the re:tuned discussion starter for “Lonely Boy”


Editor’s note: The re:tuned section in every Music Resource Book features  discussion points for some of today’s most popular mainstream songs. These brief studies are designed to give you a starting point for a “What do you think this song is about?” discussion about a song you hear hanging out with students at Starbucks. Or you might try dissecting the week’s featured “Glee” song in a small group setting. Many youth leaders tell us that the re:tuned section is one of the hidden gems of their YLO membership.

Hope: 4 week study series

Did you know that every Bible study we include in a Youth Leaders Only or Music Video Loop Resource Book is:

  • Written by a real-life youth leader (and not a wet-behind-the-ears copywriter who went to youth camp one summer when she was a kid)?
  • Field tested with their group (so they’ve worked out the kinks ahead of time)?
  • The song or video is picked by the youth leader for its teach-ability and applicability to student ministry (and not because it’s the latest single or the one the record company wants a study written about)?
  • Has a theme that is identified by one or two words that can help you build a series or illustrate one you already have planned?

Even a lot of our members will tell you it took them a while to figure out the value and depth of the Bible study resources our writers put together for each edition. To give you a taste of how it all works, I pulled together four videos from recent Music Video Loops that share the study theme of Hope. So download our one-page overview and check it out for yourself.

  • Click here to download the one-page PDF.
  • HINT #1: Rollover the MVL book images on the PDF and link to the actual Bible studies to print.
  • HINT #2: All of these videos are now available on youtube … look for the phrase “official video” to get the real deal.

Learn more about our Music Video Loops and the cool new digital files feature … now you can drag and drop all the videos into your presentation software!