My coffee shop playlist (part 1 of 2)

About once a week I pack up my “office” and work at the neighborhood coffee shop. A change of scenery, a little social interaction and a great latte are sometimes just what I need to knock down my to do list. After a few minutes of chat, I usually lock in some music and let my headphones act as a “do not disturb” sign. Last week, instead of picking something from my playlist or the new YLO box, I opened up Spotify and let their “Top Tracks” playlist roll.

An eye (ear) opening experience
If you don’t already, I’d suggest you do this once in a while. It’s a good way to get a 30,000 foot view of what your students are hearing every day — not just the one or two hits-of-the-moment that you can’t avoid. But be warned, many of these songs earned their “explicit” label. This is not a playlist your church secretary is going to be thrilled to hear. You’ll want to have your headphones on, or be in your office with the door closed.

Here are a few songs I heard. I’ve put links to the lyrics on all of these and given you an excerpt for some. And in a few places I’ve offered some commentary … ’cause I just can’t help myself.

Payphone by Maroon 5

Some Nights by Fun.
I really like the sound of Fun. But the lyrics run along the soul-searching-what-am-I-here-for theme of so many other songs. Good news is, we have an answer for the question.

But I still wake up, I still see your ghost
Oh Lord, I’m still not sure what I stand for
What do I stand for? What do I stand for?
Most nights, I don’t know anymore…

Rack City by Tyga
If you make it through the first verse of this one, you can skip the rest … just know the song is that x10.

What Makes You Beautiful by One Direction
Yes, I know, it’s boy-band pop. But what a great way to start a discussion about self-esteem with a group of middle school girls.

Download our re:tuned discussion starter for “What Makes You Beautiful” from the brand new YLO88.

Young, Wild & Free by Snoop Dogg and Wiz Khalifa feat. Bruno Mars
Heads up. It’s another sing-along-party-song. Do all your kids spend their weekends this way? Probably not (but some may). Do all your kids know the words to this song? Probably so (and they’re singing with gusto).

So what we get drunk?
So what we smoke weed?
We’re just having fun
We don’t care who sees
So what we go out?
That’s how its supposed to be
Living young and wild and free

If you want to check out these specific songs, I created a playlist on Spotify. Or do what I did and just check out their “Top Lists” playlist.

Do I even need to say this?
Just to go on the record, I’m not condoning the lyrics of these songs. And I don’t make the choice to listen to songs like “Rack City” lightly. But I know I can’t say “I get it” unless I really understand what “it” is.

There are a few more songs I listened to that I’ll talk about in another post. If you’re like me, you can only handle so much of this at one time.

Jimmy Needham “Clear The Stage”

Jimmy Needham’s newest album “Clear The Stage” is featured as a mild selection in the brand new summer edition of Youth Leaders Only. The study, written by Dave Jones from First Baptist Church in Milton, PA, offers students a chance to reflect on the things that distract them from our relationship with God.

Download our exclusive Bible study for “Clear The Stage”

The summer edition of Youth Leaders Only ROCKS with new music from Fireflight, TobyMac, Kutless, Flame and more! Plus the box features our exclusive Humor themed DVD that includes video from Skit Guys, Tim Hawkins, Michael Jr., and others.

You can see the complete preview of YLO88 on our website.

 

Have you heard about this Avengers thing?

It’s Monday morning, and I feel the need to confess something:

I’m not a big moviegoer.

It’s hard for me to sit still for 2 hours to watch anything. My mind is always racing with all the other things I should be doing. Plus movie theaters are always so cold. I have to pack a parka and snow boots anytime I do go.

But I do hear and read a lot about movies (I know, I know … it’s not the same as actually watching). And I’ve heard a lot about The Avengers this weekend. Obviously I haven’t seen it (see the previous 3 paragraphs) but I thought it’d be worth the space here to share some of what’s being said from a student ministry perspective on the interwebs. The movie is a huge blockbuster, which means it is on your students’ radar. There are some fun reviews from youth-ministry-types to read (several folks braved the midnight showings), and you won’t have to dig too deep to find ways to connect the dots between The Avengers, your students and scripture.

How about you? Have you seen the movie yet? Did you love it? Have you found a way to use it in your ministry?

Editor’s note: Most of these links we’ve also shared on Twitter. If you’re not following us already, you should be! We find (and share) a lot of great ideas and news we find relating to student ministry and music and media.

Jamie Grace countdown “drop-in” video

Each of our exclusive Music Video Loop DVDs features the latest music videos from your favorite artists … but you knew that already. What you might not know is that every DVD also includes “Drop-In Videos” — video clips of artists that will give your video announcements a big boost. Like this one from Jamie Grace …

Now, I KNOW you can figure out a way to use that! And every MVL has at least 5-6 drop-ins … everything from “Happy Birthday!” to “Welcome to youth group” to “Let’s sign up for camp!”

Choose the “120 Music Videos” bonus when you join YLO and you’ll get 2 years worth of MVLs — with over 30 drop-in videos!

And we have a big announcement to make:

(insert drumroll here)

Beginning with the new MVL77, all of the video files — music videos, artist drop-ins, teaching clips and more — are digitized and can be dropped directly into your presentation software! You’ve been asking (and asking, and asking  … ) and we finally made it happen!

YLO Members: The new MVL77 with all those amazing digital files will be inside your YLO88 box shipping in May. Not a member? You should be! Find out how to join here and you’ll get MVL77 in your first box!

Guest post: What we can learn from the world’s oldest teenager

By interlinc team member Phil Baker

We lost a music legend this week.  And he never played an instrument or sang a song.  Dick Clark will be remembered as an authority in the music industry.  Why?  Because he recognized the power of music.  It lifted him out of depression when he lost a brother in World War II.  And he saw it lift the American teenager from culturally insignificant to culturally influential.

He was known as “the world’s oldest teenager” not just because he seemed to age slower than the rest of us.  But also because he kept his intuitive finger on the drum beat of popular music.  Youth leaders also tend to be “just older teenagers”.  (You know I’m right.)  Like Dick Clark they too are kept young by the company they keep.  So it is only appropriate that we pause and observe the life of Dick Clark to see what truth a youth leader can glean from it.

You don’t have to dress and act like a teenager to gain their trust.
Dick Clark started “American Bandstand” in 1952 and saw three decades of music and teenagers twist, hustle and break-dance across his dance floor.  And in all that time, he remained professional in action and in dress.  While fashions and trends flooded the culture in which he plied his trade, he remained uninfluenced and unchanged, like a handrail for those trying to make their way.

Nothing is sadder than someone trying to be something they’re not.  And Dick Clark showed that you don’t have to dress and act like a teenager to gain their trust.  Teens, more than anyone, can sniff out the inauthentic.

Listen beyond the beat
On “American Bandstand” teenagers danced to and then rated the most popular songs of their day, often commenting mindlessly that “it’s got a good beat and you can dance to it.”  But there’s much more to a song than beat and dance-ability.  As a youth leader, you have to listen beyond the beat to filter out those messages that might endanger what you are trying to instill in your teens.

No opinions, just discussion
While an appearance on “American Bandstand” could make or break an artist, rarely did Dick Clark comment on the content or message of the music.  In interviews with his audience, he offered no opinions, just discussion, letting them criticize or praise a song or artist.

As a youth leader, you have a great “in” with the teens who darken the door of your youth room.  It’s possible you could “make or break” their spiritual future simply by discussing their favorite artist with them or exposing them to a Christian artist who they might not otherwise come across.  There’s no need to judge their musical tastes or force a song into their ears.  A simple question or lighthearted conversation about the merits of an artist (Christian or mainstream) can go a long way.

There’s a lot to be said for Dick Clark’s unique effect on the music industry.  Makes you really think about how someone can change the world in an unexpected way.

Like all legends, Dick Clark will live forever, his name etched on the stone memorial of music history.  And I hope a little of him will live on in youth leaders who recognize the potential impact music has on a person and a ministry.

Maroon 5 re:tuned

Maroon 5 has a pretty high profile these days, with lead singer Adam Levine serving as one of the vocal coaches on the current season of The Voice.

“Moves Like Jagger” was the first single for their latest album, and while we’ve been hearing it for a while, writer Kirk Moore offers us a chance to go beyond the obvious in his re:tuned Discussion Starter for the song from the latest edition of Youth Leaders Only.

Download the re:tuned for “Moves Like Jagger” here

Guest Post: Worth the Effort

By interlinc Editor Ken McCoy

The buses pulled into the church parking lot and were greeted by cheers from teenagers and their parents. Their arrival was the climax of two hours of pre-game programming – a bluegrass band was playing on the porch of the Longhorn Lodge; Dirty Bert and his gang rode in on horses and staged a gunfight in and around the Lodge; our leaders were dressed in cowboy boots and hats; and dads were cooking burgers and hot dogs on massive grills out by the ballfield. All that, just to “check in” the kids going to camp.

“Desperado” was the theme of camp that year, and we had worked hard for a couple of months to set the tone for what would happen all week. We were already worn out before we even boarded the busses, but we were fired up!

See our list of camp and mission trip theme songs

Why? Camp was going to be when we experienced the results and rewards for months and months of daily ministry with teenagers. We worked hard going into camp and were expecting that God would let us see some of the fruit of our labor: changed lives. We could hardly wait to see what He would do!

We weren’t disappointed, and I’m still thrilled about what He did that week. I know that some of those kids are in full-time ministry today, and dozens of them are now godly parents and volunteer ministry leaders. I know this because many of those people have found me on Facebook and have filled me in on what God is still doing in and through them.

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Camp is a lot of work. If you do it well, you can count on being exhausted, wasted, irritated, and completely spent by the time you get home. You can also count on being thrilled, fulfilled, and motivated to take advantage of the momentum that camp can provide your ministry.

It’s worth the effort!


BONUS RESOURCES

Article: In Defense of Summer Camp by Jeremy White at Valley Church in Vacaville, California

Resource: The Definitive Mission Agency List (PDF)

Resource: Festival Survival Guide: Everything you need to know to take your youth group to a Christian Music Festival (without going crazy!) by Dave Weiss

This one’s not about music

I’ve been waiting for (dreading) this interview with Nicki Minaj. It aired on Nightline last night, and I’d been hearing about it (via twitter) for a week or so. I didn’t watch last night, but I found it online first thing this morning to see what went down.

My “dread” was of the head-shaking “here we go again” variety. There are plenty of things in this interview I take issue with. And on another day, I might write a post about any one of these quotes from the interview:

“I love the F-bomb.”

I mean come on, that post all but writes itself.

“I don’t want to offend moms and children that come to my shows, but … “

But what? You don’t think your Barbie-doll-like appearance and bubble gum color costumes appeal to the tween set?

“Can Sophia sing that one?”

(referring to the 8 year old whose YouTube video of her singing Super Bass landed her on “Ellen.”) And don’t get me started on the parents thinking it was “cute” to have their 8 year old singing a song that includes “He just gotta give me that look, when he give me that look / Then the panties comin’ off, off, unh”

I wrote a bit about Nicki’s hit “Stupid Hoe” before her Super Bowl appearance. And her Grammy performance left me shaking my head. So I had already mentally prepared for this post. I was ready to be angry. My defenses were up. I was mapping out my response to every “I’m-gonna-change-the-world” or “My-music-is-about-empowering-women” comment. PUH-leeeez.

But instead I find myself with a completely different set of emotions after watching the interview. Heartache. Grief. Conviction.

I’ve watched the interview three times and all I can see is a little girl who grew up in a hellish nightmare that no child should experience. A kid who was robbed of the innocence of childhood, and who never experienced the love of a father. Under all the wigs and costumes and makeup and bravado, there’s a young woman who desperately wants to be cherished and loved.

Here’s what was whispered to my heart while I watched the interview: God loves Nicki Minaj.

As much as he loves me.

And you. And the young ladies (and men) in your student ministry who may be growing up in their own version of a hellish childhood.

So today I’m not going to get all wound up about her music. Today I need to embrace the heartache, in order to be reminded of the vastness of God’s love. I need to recognize the search for Truth that is exposed in the lyrics of so many mainstream artists. I need to pray for wisdom, so that when given the opportunity, I’ll be bold enough to point to that Truth. And I need to pray for Nicki Minaj, that she’ll discover the love of the true Father.

Newsboys “God’s Not Dead”

What a great, clear message for the Monday after Easter! The objective of this study, written by Doug Ranck from Santa Barbara, California, is “to help youth discover again, or for the first time, the new life Christ offers.”

Download the Bible study for “God’s Not Dead” and check it out. It might be a great addition to your mid-week conversation.

Movie Resource: The Passion of the Christ

We were privileged to be asked to create a series of student-ministry resources for The Passion of the Christ movie when it was released several years ago. Each year at Easter we try to make sure you have access to some of these great articles and studies. Below are links for three of the feature studies (PDFs). You can use these along with a full viewing of the movie if you choose, or maybe you just want to use clips from the movie to illustrate the Easter message.

Study: Why Did Jesus Have to Die?
Study: Who’s Who in The Passion
Study: Feeling Sad for Jesus isn’t Enough